Incorporating the Traditional Poem

Posted on January 24, 2012 by GonnaGetWed

“Something old, Something new, Something borrowed, and Something blue” has been a custom of good luck and fortune with a meaning to each item. The saying is based off an old English poem:

Something old, Something new
Something borrowed, Something blue
And a silver sixpence in her shoe.

-Something old represents the link to the bride’s family and the past.
Items that can be used for this particular part of the poem is a relative’s jewelry, a family heirloom, using a relative’s wedding gown or using the fabric as part of your dress, wrapping a relative’s handkerchief around your bridal bouquet, antique pins or hairpieces, and so much more that has meaning to link you to your family.

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-Something new represents the bride’s future and success in her new life ahead.
This item can be absolutely anything new from the dress to your ring, jewelry, shoes, hairpieces, and veils. There are so many things to pick from if it’s purchased new.

-Something borrowed represents friends and family that are there for your special day.

It is something borrowed from a happily married friend or family member whose good fortune is to be passed on to you. Somethings that are borrowed are again jewelry, however it can be anything. Maybe a friend’s ring bearer pillow or a parent’s cake cutting set; as long as it is returned after there are no boundaries.

 -Something blue represents love, purity, and loyalty. It is a color that has been connected to many wonderful meanings.
The possibilities are absolutely limitless. There are have been brides who put blue accents on their jewelry, shoes, lingerie, or garter. They have used blue ribbon around their bouquet, blue thread in their dress, or blue nail polish. Some treads that are new are putting blue in a tattoo or getting things printed in blue on the bottom of their shoes.

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 -Lastly a silver sixpence is often left our, however it represents wealth. It is to be worn in the bride’s left shoe.

Brides have been honoring this tradition for centuries. These items are completely up to you and are only limited by your imagination.

Photos: (1) Bel Air from Sequins Bridal Boutique, (2) Country Garden

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Inexpensive Centerpieces

Posted on January 22, 2012 by GonnaGetWed

Centerpieces at your reception are the romantic, finishing touches to complete your tables. They are the “wow” factor when your guests walk in, however they don’t have to be either expensive or over the top. Sometimes your centerpieces can be one the cheaper purchases for your wedding.

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Here are some ideas to save you some cash so you can spend it on your honeymoon instead.

-Vases are extremely versatile; you can use them any way you like. Just to give you a few ideas, you can fill them with flowers, candles, candy, sand, marbles, stones, or multiple combinations of anything. One idea that can save you a lot is reusing your ceremony flowers. You have already spent the money; why not make those flowers double in use. All you have to do is have vases prepared for them to be taken to your reception and set in place for a very elegant centerpiece. Another way to double duty your already paid for flowers is to reuse your bridesmaids’ bouquets. They can be placed in preset vases at the wedding party table.

- Another idea is placing one simple flower and filling the vase with some sand, marbles, or stones matching your wedding colors for a modest look.

-Using candy in your vases can provide your guests with some handy snacks and becomes more convenient than having to go to a candy bar.

-Candles are items your guests can take with them so you don’t have to. At the end of the night the less you have to take home besides presents, the better. You can personalize them with jewels, ribbons, or custom stickers stating your names and wedding date. To dress your candles up more you can set them on little glass or mirror shapes as well as grouping them together for a classic look.

-Frames are becoming more popular. Nice pictures of your relationship showing your guests how you two have grown into the married couple before them are very personal and heartwarming visuals.

-Fishbowls are just as versatile as vases. You can fill them with tons of ideas including filling them with water while having floating flowers and candles in them for a romantic vibe.

There are so many creative things that can be done with centerpieces that don’t have to be costly. The possibilities are endless and you can save a lot of cash taking the time to be creative and personalize your centerpieces to make your reception memorable.

Photos by GonnaGetWed.com member, Poppyscott Events

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How to say “I Do!”

Posted on January 18, 2012 by GonnaGetWed

With all the wedding planning that’s consumed your time as a newly engaged couple it’s important not to forget about the most important part of the ceremony and the reason for all this excitement, you’re getting married! You and your husband are forsaking all others and devoting yourselves to each other for the rest of your lives! You want to put a lot of thought into how you want to say your vows! You can go traditional, or make your own. It’s completely up to your wishes as a couple.

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Traditional: Traditional Vows are when you express your love for each other without mentioning the presence of God or any other religious figure. This may be a good method to use if you and your spouse have differing religious beliefs or if you don’t want religion to be a part of your wedding.

Non-Traditional: Non-Traditional Vows are vows that you write on your own specifically for each other. You are able to personalize them this way and make them special and unique just for you two as a couple. If you choose this option you may also be able to incorporate some humor into them if it’s appropriate for you two as a couple.

Religious Vows: These are pretty much the same as Traditional Vows except you do incorporate God or any other religious figure. You can also add religious Vows into Non-Traditional Vows as well.

When choosing the right Vows for you it’s important to first look at the wishes and views of you and your future husband. Also take into account your audience and location of the wedding. There’s no wrong way to go with this as long as you and your future husband are both happy!

photos by GonnaGetWed member, Finished Vision Photography

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Color Trends…Lime Green

Posted on January 12, 2012 by GonnaGetWed

The start of every new bridal season also brings the start of new wedding trends! Every bridal season has it’s own colors, décor, desserts, and many other elements that set it apart from other seasons. As gonnagetwed.com just finished up their winter bridal showcase, it became apparent that the hot new color for 2012 is none other than lime green!

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If you attended the January 8th GonnaGetWed Bridal showcase you surely noticed the lime green cakes, bridesmaid dresses, décor, and many other things! This color is bright and bold and would be a perfect color for a spring or summer wedding! You can even incorporate unconventional patterns into your lime green colors too. Think lime green cheetah or zebra print for your cake and invitations. You can even do this with your chair covers too! Don’t be afraid to also incorporate the color into your center pieces as well. Using limes or green apples in your center pieces might be a fun touch! It’s also great for the environment! Calla lilies would be a great flower choice if you want to use lime green color scheme in a more toned down version. These flowers are beautiful on their own and would also look great in center pieces or on a cake!

Lime green would also be a great color to use just as an accent color! Black and white could be your dominant colors and you could just add splashes of lime green wherever you see fit. A lime green sash on a black bridesmaid gown would be a nice touch. You could also tie a lime green ribbon around a black and white cake! The sky’s the limit!

Whichever color scheme you decide to go with on your big day just remember, it’s completely up to you and no color is too bright or too dull, it’s all up to the tastes of you and groom!

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Bridal Shows 101 – What Should I Bring?

Posted on January 6, 2012 by GonnaGetWed

The GonnaGetWed Bridal Showcase is a great resource for your wedding planning.  Here is a list of items that you should bring to make the most of your experience:

  • Key decision makers-Bring everybody that is involved in making decisions about your wedding. It is important to get all the opinions and thoughts of all that are involved. It never hurts to have a second or third opinion.
  • Return address stickers-This saves you time so do not have to fill out numerous entry slips for prizes.
  • Checkbook-Many vendors will require you to make deposits on the spot to guarantee your date. Be ready to make these payments to secure the wedding professional you want and your wedding date.
  • Calendar-Bring your personal calendar so you have all your important dates in front of you. This will be helpful if you choose to make appointments with vendors.
  • Camera-Take photos to jog your memory about something that grabbed your attention at the show. (Be sure to ask permission from wedding professionals before taking photo of their products.)
  • Small notebook and pen-You don’t want to forget anything when you get home. You never know what tips or information you may want to write down to review later.
  • Wear comfortable shoes and leave your coat-You will be doing lots of walking and standing. The last thing you want to worry about is your aching feet. Also, leave your coat in the car so you can avoid the hassle of carrying it around the show.
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One Dress…or Two?

Posted on December 30, 2011 by GonnaGetWed

As a newly engaged woman, your dress is probably one of the things you’re most excited about purchasing. You may have the dress picked out already and know exactly what you want, or you may have no clue! However, one thing you may not have already thought about is the option of getting not one dress, but two!

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This may sound crazy at first but when you really think about it, it makes perfect sense! For instance some women love dresses with lots of layering and beads. These dresses are beautiful but one thing to think about is they may be super heavy and uncomfortable for you to wear throughout the entire reception. You could consider wearing the dress for the ceremony only and then switching to a lighter dress for the reception. You could even consider what Alan Evans Bridal likes to refer to as a “Shorty” and purchase a short dress for the reception which will really allow you to move, and dance!

Another instance where buying two dresses might be a good decision is if you’re having a destination wedding. More than likely you will probably have a reception back home. If this is the case, you can purchase a light airy dress for your beach wedding, and a more traditional dress for your reception.

No matter what you decide just keep in mind you need to decide what’s right for you. However, if you really like the idea of having two dresses, keep your eyes out for one of Alan Evans famous BOGO sales. Yes, that’s right, every once in a while they have a buy one get one wedding gown sale! It really doesn’t get much better than that!

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Cabana Honeymoon – Travel Leaders

Posted on December 22, 2011 by GonnaGetWed

A perfect honeymoon activity is laying under a private cabana and maybe even on a private island. Sandals Royal Bahamian in Nassau, Bahamas offers exactly this! The island is quiet and peaceful and offers newlyweds the perfect bonding landscape.  Along with a restaurant, pool and an amazing beach – it even has a Zen garden with an area where you can experience spa treatments.

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Nothing but amazing things can be said about being pampered with a massage on this island. So for honeymooners really looking to relax and unwind after the hectic planning process, week-long wedding activities, and wild reception dance, Sandals has the perfect cabana for you! I say heaven, what about you?  If you are interested in learning more or seeing more pictures of this amazing resort, just call Travel Leaders at 605-335-6968 or email them at travelfsd@travelleaders.com.

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Tying the Knot A Second Time | Wedding Planning

Posted on December 14, 2011 by GonnaGetWed

So you have decided to tie the knot for a second time. Yah! Often times when it comes to second weddings couples are often very busy with careers in full-swing, possible kid’s activities, and generally a busier lifestyle. All these things make planning a second wedding even more difficult than planning for the first. A positive is that you are little older and wiser this time around making you more confident in your choices.

Wedding planners or wedding coordinators are recommended the second time around if you failed to work with one the first time. They can help you navigate and make your choices a reality from floral, to decor, to menu. They will take care of all of the heavy lifting as well as all of the tweaking and fluffing for your ceremony and reception! The end result is that you get to enjoy the day more and have all the stress of wedding planning.

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Just remember that while this may be your second marriage, you have been through a lot to get to this point in life. Both of you have every reason to celebrate your love, and your love has no lesser value simply because you found one another the second time around. Thank goodness for second chances!

- GonnaGetWed.com Member: Simply Devine Weddings and Events

Simply Devine Weddings and Events specializes in wedding planning and decorating for all couples! 605-461-8873 • www.simplydevinesd.com

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Second Marriages | Destination Weddings

Posted on December 7, 2011 by GonnaGetWed

Destination weddings are perfect for the second marriage. Your possibilities are endless!  An intimate affair with just the two of you or something grand and spectacular with lots of family and friends in a different and exotic location! Wedding themes can be picked from a selection already made up or customized to your preference. Plus you can have your wedding and honeymoon all in one! There are a lot of resorts that add the wedding for free when you stay a certain number of nights and in a certain room category.

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A destination wedding may be more affordable than you think. Contact a Destination Wedding Specialist at Travel Leaders today!

- Kristina Wolfe, CTC, Travel Leaders • 605-335-6968 

Travel Leaders is a member of GonnaGetWed.com. Locations in Sioux Falls, Aberdeen, Pierre and Brookings, South Dakota.

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9 Tips for Addressing Your Wedding Invitations

Posted on December 2, 2011 by GonnaGetWed

You’re getting ready to address your wedding invitations. How are you supposed to know which names go in which order on which envelope? Depending on the outer envelope, the inner envelope, and many other scenarios, these tips should help!

(Remember, these are just tips—guidelines—so feel free to deviate from these if you prefer to make your invitations more personal or more casual.) Do you even have an inner envelope? That’s what I thought. Some of these guidelines are adaptable.

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When it comes down to it, there are 9 guidelines I like to follow:

  1. Same last name, same line. Different last names, different lines. Nobody needs to know if the couple is married or just living together.
  2. Use the word “and” if they’re married. Use “&” to invite their guest.
  3. Use your best judgment. Address people as they wish to be addressed. Does she go by Dr.? She earned it. Please use it. Does his grandmother still go by Mrs. John Doe in honor of her deceased husband? Then address her as so. Treat people with the respect they deserve. When in doubt, opt for more formal than less formal.
  4. I know it’s formal and traditional to use “Mr. and Mrs. Loren Halgerson.” But we’re in the 21st century. It’s perfectly fine to say “Mr. and Mrs. Loren and Marilyn Halgerson.” It’s up to you and how traditional you’d like to be.
  5. If you’re having an inner envelope, use first names for everyone (unless your guests prefers “Mr., Mrs., Doctor, Dr., Colonel, The Honorable, or Revered) and list the children in order by age.
  6. Just a tip. You probably shouldn’t include “& Guest” if your relative was recently widowed.
  7. Remember, a medical doctor should have “Doctor” in front of his/her name, while a PhD should have “Dr.” in front of his/her name.
  8. If children at 18 years and older, do you have to send them separate invitations? I say yes, if they no longer live with their parents and it makes sense to. Yes, if they are dating someone and would like to bring their own guest. Yes, if you are really close with them.
  9. If you don’t care to have children present at your wedding, make sure that there is no room for confusion. Do not list “and family” on the invitation. That’s wide open for interpretation. On your RSVP card you could politely say “adults only, please.” You could offer a babysitter or daycare option during the ceremony and reception if it’s necessary that families bring their small children. Be courteous to each situation, but stick to your wishes.

Any professional calligrapher, wedding invitation designer or stationer will be able to help you with the tough ones. Good luck!

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