A bridal shower is one of those parties that are fun and practical at the same time. Whether your shower is being hosted by your Maid of Honor, your female (distant) relatives, or your future in-laws, bridal shower etiquette can never be overlooked.
- Let the Hostess Host–You have a say in EVERY aspect of your big day, but not your shower. Your shower is being hosted by someone who loves you, let them host. They may ask for a guests list, but beyond that, your input should be limited.
Arrive early–Yes, it’s your party. But by arriving earlier than your guests, you will have the opportunity to greet everyone as they enter. Your guests are there to see and spoil YOU, after all.- Keep a List– Appoint someone with nice handwriting to keep the list of all your gifts and their givers. This will come in handy when writing your thank you notes. Which brings us to…
Thank Yous– Along with your verbal thank you to all your guests and hosts the day of your shower, written thank yous should be sent within the following week, NO EXCUSES! You will have lots of reasons to write thank yous during your engagement and by putting it off, you are more apt to forget someone.
- Gift Your Hostess– Along with your handwritten thank you, a small gift for the hostess to show your appreciation is acceptable. Flowers, a personalized jewelry box, or tickets to their favorite play are all options.