When it comes to your wedding remember, the small details do matter! Even something as simple and quick as the toast is something that can totally make-or break the mood of your reception. Keep in mind the basics of who, what, when and where, when it comes to toasting at your wedding.

Who: It used to be tradition for just the best man to speak. However, now it it’s common for maid of honor, parents and the groom to speak. Be careful who you choose to speak, you don’t want them to be overly obnoxious or embarrassing. On the flip side you also don’t want them to be too timid to deliver a great speech.

What: You may what to have the toasters give you their speech for you or a relative to read before the wedding. That way you can be sure all the content is appropriate and positive. The speech should state how the toaster is connected to the bride and groom and should be completely focused on the couple. Always end the toast with a well wishing to the newly married couple. Also, make sure the toast doesn’t go over three minutes, the guests will start getting bored if it goes much longer.

When: You need to choose the toast times before hand to avoid any confusion on your wedding day. A great time to toast is right before the first course, or while the first course is being served. That way your guests will be entertained while their waiting for their meal. Another good time to toast is after the first dance.

Where: Be sure the toaster is standing when they give their speech. They can stand right at the table with the rest of the wedding party or walk to where ever a microphone is set up. Do make sure the toaster knows ahead of time where they are supposed to go.

The main thing with the toasts is to make sure the speaker(s) are prepared ahead of time and everything is planned out. That way everything is sure to go smoothly and there will be no surprises with the toast on your wedding day.