Sure, social networking can be a tremendous waste of time, the reason for hours of unfinished work and, for most people, a very unhealthy obsession.

I realize it may take some convincing, but (meaningless statuses and celebrity tweets aside) it IS possible to use these sites for good. In fact, when it comes to your wedding, social networking can be a lifesaver. Since your guests, family members and ever-needed bridesmaids are, undoubtedly, spread all over the country, what better way to contact them then through the most visited site on the internet—Facebook.

Want to get everyone on the same page? Set up a Facebook event for the big day. It’s easy, effortless, and a quick way for guests to find information. Keep them updated on exciting additions you’ve made to the event, post your engagement pictures for all to enjoy, and ask for suggestions or referrals if you’re having trouble finding a photographer, caterer, etc.  Don’t be afraid to really dive in and ask for help. Chances are they’ll want to be involved.

Visit the Facebook sites of businesses you are interested in including in your wedding. You’ll find testimonials from other customers and have the chance to post any nagging questions. These sites are great because you can form an objective opinion from the reviews without leaving the comfort of your home.

Planning a wedding is crazy enough as it is, so why not make it easier by utilizing these online tools? You’ll be able to spend more time enjoying the process, get a lot of help and support, and share your thoughts and emotions with your closest friends and family during the post-vow period.

But while you’ll surely be dying to post your wedding pictures immediately after the big event, take some time to get away from the online buzz and enjoy yourself. At least until the honeymoon is over.

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