While planning your wedding one of the hardest decisions you may have to make is who will be on the guest list! You will definitely want to include all of your close family and friends but how will you decide who to cut and who to invite? Of course you will want to get the opinion of your parents but keep in mind they don’t have the final say. They may want you to invite your third cousin once removed that you’ve never met before but you have to remind them this is your day!

You and your groom need to decide together who will be invited to your wedding. You need to make sure to include relatives and friends that are on both sides. This will take time and thought. One thing you could do is make a list of everyone you can think of that you would possibly want to invite. Once you get your final number of guests you can invite then start crossing people off.

One question you will get a lot from people is “am I invited to your wedding?” It’s best to be honest with them. If you’re 100% sure they will be there then tell them yes. If you’re unsure tell them you’ll have to wait to see how many guests can come and will go from there. If they’re going to be that upfront with you then it’s ok to be upfront back!

Your guest list is a very hard decision for the two of you, however don’t let it hinder your big day! You can only invite so many people and need to decide who you’d like to have most there to share this day with you. Everyone will understand!

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